July 25, 2021


July 25, 2021

Life After Death:

living and finding life through grief

Ecclesiastes 7:2

2 Corinthians 1:9

Death of a loved one could feel like receiving the death sentence itself. How could we live and find life after the death of a dearly loved one?


The myriad dimensions of loss

Losses other than death, that could also cause deep sorrow: 

Secondary losses and the loss of a future

Mourning our way from death to life

Ecclesiastes 3:4

Mourning is acknowledging and expressing the entire breadth of sorrow

God’s own word will be our voice when we are voiceless in our weeping

Psalm 13

Psalm 6:6-7

Jeremiah 15:18

John 11:35

John 16:22

The Bible begins and ends with rejoicing, but much sorrow, weeping, and lamenting are evident in between the bookends.

Revelation 21:4 Certain sorrow may never heal completely; our weeping may continue and our tears may not stop rolling until Jesus Himself wipes it for us, for one last time when we finally meet him.

Mourning is remembering

Luke 22:18-20

It is a mystery, but the memory of the deceased becomes a source of great comfort and healing

Healing comes not from forgetting the deceased, but from remembering them that: 

  1. We can be at peace with the loss 
  2. We can remember with love and gratitude, and not pain
  3. We can integrate the memory of the deceased, and the loss, into who you are going to be as you live and rebuild life again

Mourning is rebuilding a new life

There is no way of returning to “normal”

You could wear prosthetic, but as you walk into the future, you are constantly reminded of what you have lost, and the stronger person you are becoming as you rely on God’s daily provision and grace

Galatians 6:1-2

The church as the supporting cast for broken people

Grieve,  but with hope!

1 Thessalonians 4:13

We are not alone

Romans 8:35-39

Psalm 34:18

Psalm 56:8

A hopeful future

lamentations 3:19-23

Jeremiah 29:11

It is the one thing that stops us from being consumed by our pain and sorrow. It is his unfailing, faithfulness compassion, grace, even as we have to take a dip into the vast of the ocean of his mercy everyday just live one day at a time.

Life after death

One of the reasons we fear loss so much is because we have been loved so much. We fear the loss of something beautiful because it is beautiful and it is painful to lose it. Our mourning of loss is the evidence that God had graced us to experience that beauty in the first place.

The finitude of it all points to an even greater love that is infinite. One that is lasting and ever satisfying. Love that will never be taken away from us.

While for the sake of love we fear death, for the sake of love God embraced death. Jesus embraced death, so there can be be life after death. So we can have life, after his death. This is the greatest love and this love shall never depart from us. It is this love that will carry us through sorrow and grieving. It is this love that will guarantee for us, life after death.


  1. Billings, Todd. Rejoicing in Lament
  2. Bowler, Kate. Everything Happens for a Reason And Other Lies I’ve Loved
  3. Gawande, Atul. Being Mortal
  4. Sittser, Jerry. A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss
  5. Smith, Colin. For All Who Grieve

Other Resources

  1. Davidson, Adnrew. Care for the Dying
  2. Devine, Megan. It’s Ok that You’re Not Ok
  3. Kelley, Melissa M. Grief
  4. Mitchell, Kenneth. All Our Losses, All Our Griefs
  5. Wright, Norman. Helping Those in Grief

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