Bonita Valley Community Church
Forgiveness: Healing from the hurt we never deserved
September 19, 2021

Forgiveness: Healing from the hurt we never deserved

September 19, 2021

Matthew 18:21-22 (NKJV)

Then Peter came to Him and said, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.”

 

 

 

 

We love the idea of Amazing Grace when it’s for us…but it doesn’t feel that amazing when God wants us to give it to someone else

 

 

 

 

Matthew 18:23-35 (NKJV)
Therefore the kingdom of heaven is like a certain king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 And when he had begun to settle accounts, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. 25 But as he was not able to pay, his master commanded that he be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and that payment be made. 26 The servant therefore fell down before him, saying, ‘Master, have patience with me, and I will pay you all.’ 27 Then the master of that servant was moved with compassion, released him, and forgave him the debt.

28 “But that servant went out and found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii; and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat, saying, ‘Pay me what you owe!’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down at his feet and begged him, saying, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you all.’ 30 And he would not, but went and threw him into prison till he should pay the debt. 31 So when his fellow servants saw what had been done, they were very grieved, and came and told their master all that had been done. 32 Then his master, after he had called him, said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me. 33 Should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?’ 34 And his master was angry, and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him.

35 “So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses.”

 

 

 

Big Idea #1
Forgiveness begins with a reminder of how much Jesus has forgiven you

 

 

 

 

Big Idea #2
Release your need for justice

 

 

 

 

 

Bitterness converts someone else’s pain into your secret source of happiness

 

 

 

 

Big Idea #3
To forgive is to boldly declare that your life does not belong to the offending party

 

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