ConflictMarch 7, 2021
is the price we pay for intimacy
Differences of personality are the cause of 68% of arguments.
Every healthy relationship has conflict.
is always for the sake of drama, but healthy conflict always seeks .
“Peace is not the absence of conflict, it is the ability to handle conflict by peaceful means.”
- Talk to the person privately
- Get a 2 or 3 trusted friends
- Set a proportionate boundary
God is in good fights.
Are you fighting the fight?
Good Fights Vs. Bad Fights
93% of couples who fight dirty will be divorced within ten years.
Researchers can predict within 94% accuracy whether a couple will stay together based on how they fight.
How you fight matters.
What is the win?
You can win a fight and still lose.
Pride Vs. Humility
When pride sets in, a person will continue an argument 34% of the time even if he knows he’s wrong—or can’t remember what the fight was about, and a full 74% will fight on even if they feel “it’s a losing battle.”
From the earth
Good fights are fought with the goal of peace.
Good fights reflect mutual respect.
Good fights are characterized by humility.