Anger Management

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²⁶ But when the Father sends the Advocate as my representative — that is, the Holy Spirit — he will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told you. ²⁷ “I am leaving you with a gift — peace of mind and heart. And the peace I give is a gift the world cannot give. (John 14:26-27)

No relationship is to conflict

The Angry Don’ts:

1. Don’t let my anger become .

²⁶ And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” (Ephesians 4:26)

Grace filled .

2. Don’t in dealing with your anger.

Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry … (Ephesians 4:26)

3. Don’t get angry .

You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. ²⁰ Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires. (James 1:19-20)

²⁷ … for anger gives a foothold to the devil. (Ephesians 4:27 )

Addressing Conflict:

1. Be .

¹ A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare. (Proverbs 15:1)

2. Provide not frustration.

²⁹ Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. (Ephesians 4:29)

Feedback is all about what we , not about who we .

3. Lead with .

⁴ Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud ⁵ or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. ⁶ It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. ⁷ Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

4. Don’t take your loved ones for .

Loving relationships operate on the principle.

Additional Notes

What’s Happening at Crossroads

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DADCAMP FUEL

Whether you’ve got young kids or you’re an empty nester, DADCAMP Fuel is for you! Join us on Saturday, March 1, 2025, from 7 to 9 a.m. (doors open at 6:40 a.m.) at Crossroads Community Church’s South Campus for breakfast, two fatherhood talks, and the opportunity to fuel yourself to be the best dad you can be! To register.

RE|ENGAGE MARRIAGE ENRICHMENT GROUP

Take your marriage to the next level by learning more about God’s design for it and connecting with other couples. Tonight on February 23rd, we will be launching a new re|engage group. To learn more & sign up.

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RESOURCES – Find resources to help you resolve conflict in your home.