How do I talk to my friends about Jesus without being weird or pushy?
July 27, 2025 / Lewis Chifan“You Asked For It” Series
HOW DO I TALK TO MY FRIENDS ABOUT JESUS WITHOUT BEING WEIRD OR PUSHY?
(MULTILINE REVEAL SMALL)
The Engel Scale:
-10: No awareness of God
-9: Awareness of a supreme being but no knowledge of the Gospel
-8: Initial awareness of the Gospel
-7: Growing interest in the Gospel
-6: Awareness of basic facts about Jesus
-5: Grasp of the implications of the Gospel
-4: Positive attitude toward the Gospel
-3: Awareness of the need for Jesus
-2: Seeking truth and close to making a decision
-1: Ready to put faith in Jesus (decision point)
0: Follower of Jesus
A. A FRAMEWORK TO TALK ABOUT JESUS
B — with prayer: Lean on God (Luke 6:12-16)
“God, who do you want me to bless today?”
i. Pray for specific people .
ii. Ask God for appointments.
iii. Listen and .
L — : Learn their story (Luke 18:40-42)
“Seek first to understand, then to be understood.” — Stephen Covey
E — together: Share life together (Matthew 9:9-13)
S — Share : Get personal
i. What was your life like Jesus?
ii. What to Jesus?
iii. What is your life like Jesus?
S — Share : Get to the Gospel
— created us to be with Him (Genesis 1-2)
— sin separates us from God (Romans 3:23; 6:23)
— cannot be removed by good deeds (Isaiah 64:6)
— the price for sin, Jesus died and rose again (Romans 5:8)
— who trusts in Him alone has eternal life (John 3:16)
— with Jesus starts now and lasts forever (John 17:3)
Today’s “Big Idea”:
When speaking to people about Jesus you need , mixed with , and a lot of .