How do I find (and be) a godly spouse?
July 28, 2024 / Lewis Chifan
HOW DO I FIND (AND BE) A GODLY SPOUSE?
1. THE TRUTH ABOUT SINGLENESS AND MARRIAGE
“I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God;
one has this gift, another has that.” (1 Corinthians 7:7)
a) Singleness is a ().
b) Marriage is ().
“… those who marry will face many troubles in this life…” (1 Corinthians 7:28b)
2. HOW TO FIND A GODLY SPOUSE
a. Don’t let your time be time.
i. Use this time to as a person.
– A person will attract a person.
ii. in your emotional, mental, physical and spiritual .
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” (Matthew 22:37)
3. HOW TO BE A GODLY SPOUSE
“Now that I, your Lord and Teacher have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you.” (John 13:14-15)
a. Jesus provides a for your . Your role in marriage is to SERVE your spouse.
“Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” (Ephesians 5:21)
“Submit” in Ancient Greek is a military word that means “to serve the common good”.
“Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. (Ephesians 5:22)
b. A wife’s love for her husband is to be , putting needs before needs.
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her…” (Ephesians 5:25)
c. A husband’s love for his wife is to be , putting needs before needs.
Today’s “BIG IDEA” …
can pursue and Christ-centered living.
Small Group Discussion Questions
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What qualities would you expect to see in a godly spouse?
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What are some of the tensions of singleness and some of the tensions of being married?
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What are some of the tensions when you serve a spouse who won’t serve you back?
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What advice would you give to someone on how to become a more committed follower of Jesus?
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How can you help your spouse grow?