What Advice Does the Bible Offer to Single Christ Followers?

May 21, 2023 / Darin Latham

What Advice Does the Bible Offer to Single Christ Followers?

1 Corinthians 7

“Now for the matters you wrote about:

‘It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.’ ” (v. 1)

“I wish that all of you were as I am (single). But each of you has your own gift from God;

one has this gift, another has that.” (v. 7)

1. Singleness is a .

a. Paul is describing his towards being single, not a  for being single.

i. A single person has relatively in life…

“But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.”

(v. 28b)

ii. A single person can have in life…

“I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs

– how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world

– how he can please his wife – and his interests are divided.

An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to

the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world –

how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you,

but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.” (vv. 32-35)

2. Singleness is a …

a. It has great beauty, but it requires a lot of to it.

i. A single person can be more vulnerable to …

“Now to the unmarried and widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.

But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry,

for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.” (vv. 8-9)

ii. A single person can be more vulnerable to …

“The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’”

(Genesis 2:18)

Today’s ‘Life Hack’…

Being single isn’t ; being single is .

 

Small Group Discussion Questions

  1. What were you taught about singleness in the past? How does it compare to this message?

  2. In this message, the pastor mentioned two vulnerabilities (sexual temptations and loneliness). What are some practical ways to address feelings of sexual temptations whether you are single or in a relationship? What are practical ways you can address feelings of loneliness whether you are single or in a relationship?

  3. What other benefits and/or challenges are there to being single?

  4. The pastor mentioned that a single person can experience a life of greater focus. If you currently find yourself single, what is one thing that you can intentionally focus on?

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