What Advice Does the Bible Offer to Single Christ Followers?
May 21, 2023 / Darin Latham
What Advice Does the Bible Offer to Single Christ Followers?
1 Corinthians 7
“Now for the matters you wrote about:
‘It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.’ ” (v. 1)
“I wish that all of you were as I am (single). But each of you has your own gift from God;
one has this gift, another has that.” (v. 7)
1. Singleness is a .
a. Paul is describing his towards being single, not a for being single.
i. A single person has relatively in life…
“But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.”
(v. 28b)
ii. A single person can have in life…
“I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs
– how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world
– how he can please his wife – and his interests are divided.
An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to
the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world –
how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you,
but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.” (vv. 32-35)
2. Singleness is a …
a. It has great beauty, but it requires a lot of to it.
i. A single person can be more vulnerable to …
“Now to the unmarried and widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do.
But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry,
for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.” (vv. 8-9)
ii. A single person can be more vulnerable to …
“The LORD God said, ‘It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.’”
(Genesis 2:18)
Today’s ‘Life Hack’…
Being single isn’t ; being single is .
Small Group Discussion Questions
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What were you taught about singleness in the past? How does it compare to this message?
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In this message, the pastor mentioned two vulnerabilities (sexual temptations and loneliness). What are some practical ways to address feelings of sexual temptations whether you are single or in a relationship? What are practical ways you can address feelings of loneliness whether you are single or in a relationship?
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What other benefits and/or challenges are there to being single?
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The pastor mentioned that a single person can experience a life of greater focus. If you currently find yourself single, what is one thing that you can intentionally focus on?